SSH + attach or create session in one command
$ssh pi@192.168.x.x -t "tmux attach || tmux new"
Put in ~/.zshrc as alias
$alias sshpi='ssh pi@x.x -t "tmux attach || tmux new"'
Run update, safe to close laptop
$sudo apt upgrade # inside tmux
Detach and close laptop safely
prefix + d, then close lid
Come back later, reattach
$tmux attach